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~inquiry

I couldn't help but take another look, and what stood out most was:

[vigorous, enthusiastic applause]

I suspect my life would be considerably better and less confusing remembering that every moment.

Good point.

But in the light of what I quoted of your post first, it's not so much the design/creation of a site that determines its being good, but the attitudes of its participants: affecting first how they see/perceive it and, thereby, how they treat it.

More specifically, insisting that a site and its participants meet certain believe/position criteria before someone graces it with their presence is one thing, regularly nudging it a direction with one's posts/replies is another altogether.

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